10 Signs How to Recognize he’s Manipulative and that you Need To Cut Him Off

You can find manipulative people everywhere, but they are actually so good at hiding their real behavior that is very hard to recognize them at first place. It’s really important to detect those individuals so you can distance yourself from them, because if you’re no t careful enough they can impact your life for the worse.

Unfortunately as we already mentioned they are very good at masking themselves, so if you don’t know what you need to look out for, you won’t be able to notice you’re in a relationship with a manipulative person. If you want to protect your heart and make sure you don’t open yourself to someone manipulative, you need to be aware of the signs that will show you that you’re in a relationship with a manipulative individual.

1. He always acts as if he’s the victim in your relationship

He will make you think that you’re the abusive one in the relationship and that he is the one that is victimized all the time by you and your behavior. He actually tries to put pressure to you to love him more than he deserves.

2. He consistently has an excuse for everything.

He will always find a way to justify his terrible behavior. He always has an excuse prepared in advance for everything. That’s the reason why he always gets away with doing so many bad things to you.

3. He doesn’t give validation to your feelings or your emotions.

He will treat your feelings like they are something totally insignificant. He will try to make you feel like you are not allowed to have those feelings and he will keep dismissing your emotions like they are nothing.

4. He changes the topic whenever you ask him questions about his life.

He doesn’t want to let you in his heart and doesn’t want you to feel like you’re an important person to him, that’s why he is not opening up you. And he never will. He won’t even try to answer the questions you have about his life, he will just keep changing the topics whenever you ask him something.

5. He deliberately does and says things that make you feel bad

And he is doing that with the intention to put you down. He actually wants to destroy your self-confidence and to make you feel insecure. He knows that making you feel bad is the best way to get you to cling to him. Also he wants you to work for his approval all the time.

6. He makes you feel guilty about having other guy friends.

He will be acting like he is the only one who has reserved the right to spend time with you and he will make you feel like you are not allowed to have guy friends and spend time with them, while he is hanging out with a lot of girl friends. He will make it seem like he is the only guy that suppose to be in your life.

7. He treats you so lovely in front of others, but he treats you terribly when it’s just the two of you.

He will always treat you nice in front of other people, because he wants them to think you’d be crazy to complain about his behavior. He is very bad partner, but he will never show that in front of others.

8. He somehow always makes you feel afraid and insecure in your relationship.

You will never feel safe in your own romance, because he will never give you the emotional security. He will make you feel afraid for the future of your relationship.

9. He constantly lies to you.

He doesn’t care if he has to lie to you just to get him out of trouble. He has no problem to keep lying to you if that’s convenient for him to do. He is not a guy that can be honest with you.

10. He makes you feel like you are dependent and indebted to him.

He wants you to feel like you depend on him and he wants to find a way to make it seem like you need to stay with him because you would never be in the position where you are now without his help.