6 Signs to Show You That You Are in a Forced Relationship

Did happen to you to be tired of being in a relationship with someone but still don’t want to break it off? This is called forced relationship! To maintain a healthy relationship, both sides need to work together.

Sometimes you’re not even aware that you’re in a forced relationship or that you’re forcing someone to love you. But what could a forced relationship bring except broken heart and misery? You just can’t force someone to love you or to be with you. Did your partner tell you or show you, that he/she loves you? Are they planning the future with you? If none of that happened most probably they are not interested in a relationship with you.

Continue riding if you want to find out if you’re in a forced relationship or not. In this article we are talking about the signs the will show you that you’re in a forced relationship.

1. You make all the plans

Have you ever wondered who is making all the plans and all the arrangements? Are you the only one who ask for a date and make plans to spend some time together or your partner also takes initiative? If your partner only accepts your plans and is not showing any interest to spend some time with you, most probably he/she doesn’t even what to be with you. This is the first sign that you’re in forced relationship or you’re forcing someone to be in a relationship with you.

2. Breaking up won’t bother you

Did happen to you to think about breakup and feel no worries about it? This is a sign that your relationship is completely forced. If you’re in a healthy relationship you won’t even thing about breakup or if you do it will only leave chills through your spine. But if you’re in a forced relationship, the break up won’t even seem difficult. So, if the thought of ending up the relationship doesn’t make you worried, it’s time for some changes. It is better to live your life alone than being with someone who will only make you feel alone.

3. Feeling rejected

Feeling rejected by the person you are in a relationship is definitely one more sign that your relationship is forced. No one wants to feel rejected or to beg for attention. If you notice that your partner is constantly rejecting you and that you need to beg for some attention or get them to agree with you, it means that your significant one is not showing any will to have you in any aspect of their lives. Maybe they are just not ready to say it in person they want to break up with you.

4. You are the one to initiate the communication

If the partner is not interested to communicate with you with the excuse they have very busy schedule and have no time to spend with you, it’s because they are not interested to be in a relationship with you. In a healthy relationship both sides take initiative to communicate, both sides are making calls and text back as soon as possible. If you’re the only one to initiate the communication in your relationship, it means your partner is not that serious in the relationship as you are. There is no need to force a relationship.

5. You don’t plan the future together

Have you ever talked about your future or made some plans for the future? If the answer is no, that means your partner has no thoughts of a future with you. Planning the future together is an ultimate goal of every healthy relationship. So if you’re never talking about the future and your partner is not even responding to your questions about it, it’s because your love has faded and the future doesn’t matter anymore.

6. Constant fights

Fighting and arguing about every single insignificant little thing is one more sign that you’re in a forced relationship. If you love and respect each other you won’t even notice all the little issues, you would just ignore fighting. But if your relationship is forced you will both lose patience easily and start arguing over silly things. That’s one of the ways of saying you don’t want the relationship anymore.

If you think you’re in a forced relationship, wait no longer! Try to solve the things with your partner or just end the relationship before it brings more misery.