8 Things You Should Avoid When Breaking up With Someone

It doesn’t really matter if we are talking about short or long-term relationships, there are always difficult moments when it comes to end up the relationship with someone. Sometimes could also be a relief if your partner didn’t treat you well, but most of the time, a break up is a period of time fulfilled with negative feelings you need to deal with.

If you think there isn’t a way to escape the break up and you just need to do it, this is the right article for you. This article is going to help you how to make the whole process of breaking up less painful and easier for both sides.

Here are 8 things you should avoid when you break up with someone

1. Don’t make a final decision too fast

You should think about it very well until you make the final decision, breaking up could be a big life decision.  Spend some time with yourself, your thoughts and feelings.  Think about everything that makes you happy and makes you sad in the relationship. Once you bring the decision, don’t wait too long to tell your partner.

2. Don’t break up by sending a message. Don’t do it in public.

If you respect your partner, break up in person. Make sure it’s not in public so you can express yourself better. Making a drama and creating a mess is completely unnecessary, so just be honest and fair. Don’t blame yourself or your partner. Do it with grace, so none of you is hurt.

3. Don’t break up when you’re angry.

If you want to make a good decision always do it when you’re calm. When you’re angry, you are led by the impulsiveness and emotions so you can make a decision and regret about it later. Calm down first and then think rationally.

4. Don’t try to be friend with them

There’s always a pain when you break up and trying to be a friend with that person will just make the things worse than they already are. You’re not responsible for their feelings anymore, so don’t try to comfort them because you can’t.

5. Don’t immediately get back together.

It’s totally normal to miss your ex-partner, especially if you just ended up a long-term relationship.  You were a part of each other’s live for some period of time. But you should think very well if you want to get back to that person. Sometimes you just miss being in relationship, not missing someone in particular.

6. Don’t call or text, and don’t stalk them on social media

Texting or calling your ex-partner will only give confusions. You’re giving them thoughts of another chance after each call or message.  There is no reason to contact them if you already made a decision and if you are sure what you want. Your ex-partner will think you want to be together again if you keep texting or calling them.

7. Don’t date the first person you meet after the breakup

It’s normal that you want to move on as soon as possible, but falling into the arms of the first person you meet it’s definitely not the right way.

All you have to do is take some time and recover from the pain. Think about to improve yourself and think about what do you want from the next relationship.  There’s no need of rush.

8. Take care of yourself

Breaking up can be very bad period, but it doesn’t mean you should get isolated. All you have to do is surround yourself with positive people who love you.  Stay busy, work out, enjoy some time with your friends, get a new hobby, get your life back on the track as soon as possible.

Remember! You are strong. You’re beautiful. You will be fine!