9 Signs That Show He Has Lost Interest In You

You don’t have to be a scientist or a relationship expert to see that your man has lost interest in you. His body-language, attitude and gestures will tell you the real story. Given below are a few things that will make you sure that it is time to leave your partner:

1. His time and efforts are inconsistent

He plays a dual role with you. Sometimes you feel like he is the best you can be with while at times it is just the opposite. On some days he tells you all about his plans for the day while on others he is off the grid.

2. He takes too long to reply to your text

This might be a very trivial issue for some while some take it very seriously. The quicker he replies the more interested he is in you, barring emergencies and special situations.

3. He doesn’t want to meet you alone

If a person is not interested in going on dates or spending quality time with you alone then it probably means that he has lost interest in you. He will meet you when there are other people involved too but never in a private setting.

4. He cannot define a relationship

There are times in a relationship when a woman has to look her man in the eye and ask him what the relationship means to him. If the guy fumbles or diverts the topic then it probably means that either he has lost or is losing interest in you.

5. He is the same with other girls as well

You might notice that the way he behaves with his other girl friends in almost the same as you. He has the right to talk to other women but he should not treat his girlfriend and other girls in the same manner.

6. You always make plans

He is up for all the adventures that you have planned for the two of you but he never takes the initiative to make a plan. Being his girlfriend, getting surprises is a very nice feeling. But if you are getting none then it means that he has no more interest in you.

7. He is not ready yet

There are times when you need to talk about serious matters in a relationship but every time you sit to discuss the matters with him, he would say that he is not ready for it. In all probability, he might never be, as he has lost interest in you.

8. You do not exist for him on social media

In the 21st century, social media plays a very important part our lives. We all want to post pictures with our loved ones and let out friends know that we are happy. Being inactive on social media is one thing, but not recognizing you even after being socially active means that your man has found someone else.

9. He hides things from you

Trust is the foundation of every relationship. If you see that your man is hiding things from you and lies to you constantly, it implies that he doesn’t trust you anymore. If the man still continues to be with you then the relationship will just be a drag.