Find the Reason Why God Brings You Closer To Some People And Then Lets Them Go
The inner workings of the heart remain as mysterious and illogical as ever before. Has it happened to you that you felt incredibly attracted towards a certain person beyond any reason or logic? Sometimes, there will be a person who checks off every box on your list and yet you can’t bring yourself to love them. You’d think that you are not ready to love and yet the very next day, a complete stranger would waltz into your life and you will be so head over heels in love with them that you will be willing to give your all to them.
Doesn’t really make sense, right? What is even worse is that there are so many people whom we were so sure we couldn’t live without, and yet sooner or later they all took an exit from our life. All of this might seem very random and illogical, but in truth it has a deep logic behind it. You just need to have faith to see it.
Have you ever wondered why you had to let go of some people who seemed like they were everything you ever needed? But have you ever noticed why they came into your life in the first place. Have enough faith in God to know that everything that happened, happened for a reason, even if you couldn’t see it like that at the moment.
If you would think rationally and with some patience, you’d realize that all these people were in your life for some definite purpose. Think about it, think of the time and place you were in your life when you first met them. What kind of challenges were you facing at that time? When you say that a person was everything that you ever needed, have you ever thought that maybe they were just everything that you needed at that point in time. Yes they came into your life for a reason.
To help you and to teach you an important lesson you needed to learn and grow at that time. To lend you support when you needed it the most. They had a specific role to play I’m your life, even if it wasn’t very apparent to you. And they were assigned this role by God. They came, they did their part, and when the time was right, they took their exit.
They bidding goodbye to you might have come as the most abrupt and unfair thing for you at the moment. Maybe there wasn’t even a proper goodbye. You were definitely not prepared to let go of them, yet you had to. You shouldn’t feel bad about it at all. With time you will come to realize that everything happens for a reason.
They would definitely be the best souls around, but they had to leave after their part was done in your life. Think of them as a childhood friend who lives a different life than you. Meeting them after years would definitely be a happy occasion and reinvigorating indeed, but sooner or later, they will have to go back to their own home. If they don’t they’d be overstaying their welcome.
And the same person who you were overjoyed to meet just a week ago will seem like a burden to you. Would you like that to happen? Isn’t it better that you part with good memories instead? You just need to have faith that everything will happen in a way that is best for you. Through these temporary encounters, God is just preparing you for those people who will finally stay.
Source: ThoughtCatalog