There are 3 Opportunities to Fall in Love That are Important for Everyone
Love is something where success is not ensured. Sometimes you fail, sometimes you succeed. However, for success you usually require several opportunities. These opportunities come into stages where you have to enter for better or worse. In the meanwhile you learn that there is always the “one” for whom you should never stop looking, and even though you need to break up from a toxic relationship, you mustn’t hesitate. Thus, look out for these three stages:
1. When You Fall for an Unreal Fairy-tale Romance
The very first time you feel butterflies whirling in your stomach at a very young age, you know you are in love. This is the kind of romance where you perceive everything as a fairy-tale, where you think you are the master of the narrative. You start planning things for you and your beloved for the future, believing that everything is into your control. However, the moment the reality hits you hard, you start to see the real picture- that relationship is not a fairy-tale, and things are not as easy as it seems into one. Gradually, things fall apart. Even though you try to get the pieces together you are unable to succeed. Also, you fail to attend the more important pictures of your life like your studies, family, friends, etc. Ultimately you understand that romanticizing about love is not enough in any relationship. It comes with a price to pay, and you learn that price.
2. When you get into a complicated romance
This is the second stage where you enter with your past experiences as the lessons. Now you know that love is not easy, and you have to give everything you got to live a happy relationship. However, it is easier said than done. This practice of yours of putting efforts every now and then into a relationship can lead you to a negative path of being abused, manipulated or lied to by your beloved. That’s why this love is complicated. You must know that two people together make a relationship, and it should not always be the only one of them giving everything he or she has. You too should get what you deserve.
3. When you land up a mature romance
The third stage is where your wait ends. You are taken by surprise when you meet the “one” for whom all those relationships in the past had to fail. This is the phase when you are really a master of your narrative. Now you know the ground realities of a relationship. You don’t expect unreasonably, you don’t fall for mere attraction or lust, and you don’t feel vulnerable in front of your partner. Finally, you believe that love is neither a fairy tale nor a complicated thing. It has to be as simple as any relation can be.
Some of you might have passed through all of them, some of you might be in the midway, or some of you might have just began. But remember when you leave a stage to enter into the next one, you must have learnt your lessons carefully from the experiences to do better in the later phase of your life.