If You Do These 10 Things, You’re Becoming The Best Version Of Yourself

1.You discuss ideas, not people

Everyone has the right to lead the life they want. You don’t judge people depending on the things they do. It is their life and they have the right to choose. People are driven by thoughts, notions, and ideas. What makes us better is how we perceive those ideas; hence you find it better to discuss the ideology of people in order to show them the right path.

2.You love yourself as much as you love anyone else

You learn to appreciate yourself and value your existence. Self-love is your strongest suit. You put your needs before others but to the extent where it would affect other people’s lives. One can’t help and love others if they don’t love themselves.

3.You take responsibility for all that is yours — regardless of whose fault it may be

You clean up your own mess and you don’t pin it on other people even if they are at fault. You are mature enough to face the music and deal with the problems that are your own.

4.You understand not everything requires your opinion

You don’t poke your head where it doesn’t belong. You know when to draw the line and you know your boundaries. Putting your opinions into matters which doesn’t even concern you will only have negative impacts on your behaviors and attitudes towards life.

5.You keep a mind open to everything and attached to nothing

You think twice before you delve deep into matters. You are the person who doesn’t jump to conclusions instantly. You see the facts, get evidence that supports the claim and then you make your judgment about the people. You have a modern outlook towards life and other people.

6.You give before you receive

You don’t need to think twice before helping others. You are the most selfless person on the planet. You don’t help others just because they have promised to do something in return; you do it in spite of that.

7.You’re straight with your communication, regardless of how inconvenient it may be perceived

You are not diplomatic in nature. You don’t have a double face. You are very straightforward about your feelings and thoughts. You stand up for what is right and you put your views forward. You don’t care how others will perceive it or how bad it is going to be for your image.

8.You’ve stopped giving off the image of perfection, knowing no one can relate to it

People are driven by notions. Once they form an idea about you, it is hard for you to change it. You don’t want to fit in this imperfect world where people judge you for who you truly are. Hence you have stopped trying and you don’t try to change the idea of the image that they have of you.

9.You quiet the voice in your head that insists something is always wrong

Standing up for what is wrong is the right thing to do. But being a pessimist all the times is not the right thing to do. You are right about a thing and you have a very strong intuition but you shut down your inner voice until you get the evidence to support your claim.

10.You don’t seek what you want, you create it

Failure is the stepping stone to success. You just don’t have a goal; you work harder and harder to achieve it. Because dreams are those which don’t let you sleep at night.