Psychology Explains Why Blunt People Make The Best Friends

“Ten minutes with a genuine friend is better than years spent with anyone less.” – Crystal Woods

You know someone who just doesn’t care what others think? The friend who does believe in sugarcoating bitter pills? Yes we need a hype squad at times, but when things go over the board, your blunt friend comes to the rescue. These “uncompromisingly forthright” friends are the best ones! Here’s why:

They Call A Spade A Spade

Imagine this: you walk out of the trial room really excited and look at your friends; one says it is brilliant, the other gives a disapproving nod. The later is your blunt friend. If they don’t like something, they’ll say it in front of you. They are brutally honest but not mean. You can trust their opinion because it’s always the truth. They do not mess with facts and say what’s need to be said, whether you like it or not.

They Are Your Real Friends

You never have to doubt their loyalty. Blunt ones are only ever friends with people they really like. They cannot even say “hi” to people they hate, forget faking friendships. You can vouch for their loyalty; they won’t play mind games with you.

They Are Pushers

Most people do not give honest opinion because they fear a rift in the relationship or feel they’ll offend you. This is exactly where the blunt friends come in; they will point out your mistakes and help you work on them. They help you grow and become the best version of yourself in the process. You can tell them your plans, they will scrutinize, praise or criticize, but it’ll be worth it.

They Accept Their Mistakes

The blunt friends will never think twice before apologizing when they’re wrong. They are not egoistic and value relationships a lot. They will make up for it not with sweet words but sweeter action.

They Will Fight For You

“Fake friends are like shadows: always near you at your brightest moments, but nowhere to be seen at your darkest hour.
True friends are like stars, you don’t always see them but they are always there.”
– Habeeb Akande

They will be your cornerstone and fight every battle with you. These are the friends who won’t judge you but pull you out of the pool of darkness. Blunt friends will be there when you’ll not find others around.

Man is a social animal. People play different roles in our lives, some are good shopping partners, some are great to gossip with or go for a brunch, some can discuss politics with gusto while some are cheerleaders who boost your confidence.

A blunt friend fulfils the role of a teacher, a critic and a loyal confidante. While you need someone to be empathetic, you also need someone who will give you unbiased views. Thus, blunt friends are a rare gift, treasure them.