Your Relationship Is In Trouble, If You Can’t Answer These Questions About Your Partner

A relationship flourishes when there are no secrets or misunderstandings between the partners. The more you converse with each other the better you will get to know them, their preferences and dislikes, their troubles and happiness, all of which will make the bond stronger.

It’s important to talk about serious issues earlier on so that you can avoid arguments later. It might be uncomfortable initially but it will help a great deal.

You might be wondering what is so important to know about your partner that really affects the relationship? Well, we have compiled a list, with the help of therapists, of things which you must know after at least a year of being together.

1. What’s their views on ‘monogamy’?

Always make sure you have discussed this with your partner. Different people have different boundaries when it comes to their relationship and being unaware of that leads to complications. Therefore ask them what they feel about discussing their relationship with others. Talk to them whether liking other people’s “hot” photos on social media is acceptable or not.

It’s important to get an understanding of their opinion on commitments and togetherness. Don’t change yourself or hide your feelings to fit your partner’s views.

2. How do they channel their emotions after fighting with you?

It’s normal for couples to fight with each other. However it’s not healthy to not know how to process these emotions. If you notice that your partner is unable to work through the negative emotions then suggest help and see if they’re willing to take action on it, says Isiah McKimmie.

It’s important to notice how they react during conflicts to avert break ups in future.

3. Are you two sexually compatible?

You won’t be having wild passionate sex all the time. However there needs to be some understanding and deeper attraction always. If you are not happy in your sexual lives then it affects the general dynamics of the relationship. Many couples end up living married lives without sex. It’s essential to talk about it and sort it out.

4. What makes them happy and content?

It’s absolutely essential to understand what makes your partner feel loved and needed and how they express their love. This helps in strengthening the bond. You need to understand the nuances that are specific to their personality so that you can always make them feel special. Most times couples suffer as one side feels the other to not be as invested in the relationship as them. A miscommunication arises.

5. Will they seek therapy to save the relationship?

Every couple needs someone to listen to their issues and offer a different perspective. Talk to your partner and see if they’re willing to seek help to save the relationship. Many times they refuse to do so and even ignore that there is a problem.

6. What are their future plans?

If you’re serious then it’s best to get an idea of what they want to do in life as it effects you as well.

Once you get a clear idea about your partner, it will make life a lot easier and happier.