10 Things Every Husband Secretly Hates About His Wife

One of the strongest words is the word “Hate”. But it might not be strong enough to express the feeling of your husband’s care about you. Yes, this is exactly how it is. Confused, right? Please, let’s read on.

10 Things Every Husband Secretly Hates About His Wife


He may not always be the best at showing it, but here are 10 things your husband really hates:

1.He hates when you’re in pain

Be absolutely sure that your husband is in pain when you are in pain. He can’t stand to see you suffering, sounds unbelievable, but he is maybe even more in pain than you while seeing you like that. If he could, he would definitely change places with you in a heartbeat. He will try to help you get through whatever battle you’re facing. Let him be there for you, don’t fight it alone.

2.He hates to see you cry

One of the things that are heartbreaking for a husband is watching his wife cry. You think he’s still asleep, but he isn’t. Your husband has heard you silently sobbing in the bathroom. He knows how much you have on your plate and really wants to reach out to you, but he doesn’t know how. Always, let him know what he can do to help take your load off. Never cry alone, at least cry together.

3.He hates when you’re away from him

Be aware that your husband misses you like crazy when you’re gone. Yes, it’s true, but he might not confess it. When either of you has to go out of town, most of the time he is thinking about you. The favorite part of each day for him is coming home. After all, he married you because he wants to spend as much time as possible with you.

4.He hates when you don’t believe in yourself

Your husband is with you because he sees the potential you have, not because he thinks you’re perfect. Absolutely he’s focused on your strengths, while you may be focused on your insecurities. He really knows how great you are and he is feeling bad when you lose confidence in yourself.

5.He hates when someone doesn’t treat you right

Being protective is a natural characteristic of husbands. If they notice that someone take advantage of you or not treat you right, automatically husbands’ blood boils. Sometimes this might even seem a bigger issue to him than it is to you. You must know that he reacts this way because he loves you. Your husband just can’t understand why anybody would disrespect the most important person in his life.

6.He hates when you feel you have to become a different person in order to make him happy

Society constantly gives us false ideas of what the ideal woman or wife should be like. If your husband is the right guy that you should marry, he won’t expect you to live up to those fake society rules. He loves you for who you are. Believe that he doesn’t want you to transform you into a completely different person just for him. Please be yourself.


7.He hates to see you fail

Your husband hates it when things don’t work out for you because he wants you to succeed  Unlike anyone else, he knows how hard you work. Failure is part of life, but remember that your husband is always there to help you try again and again.

8.He hates when you are ashamed of your body or don’t feel pretty enough

Throughout their lives, women’s bodies especially when children come into the picture. But you must know that your husband didn’t just marry you for your body. Also, he fell in love with things like your kind heart, your sense of humor, and the most important, the way you make him feel. Sure, your husband notices and appreciates your desire to look better, but this isn’t everything to him. He hates to see when you feel down about the way you look or even worse when you compare yourself to other women.

9.He hates when he causes your heart to break

You might ask yourself, “If he hates it then why does he do it?” The ugly truth is that most of the time he doesn’t mean to. Like every man in the world, he doesn’t always think before he speaks. The last thing your husband wants to do is to break your heart especially because he knows he has your heart.

10.He hates when you aren’t happy

This entire list can be summed up into the most important thing your husband hates: when you are unhappy. As the main source of his happiness, he wants this same joy for you in your life. So give him a break the next time he does something dumb or messes up.

Remember, all the things he truly hates show how much he really loves you.

One comment on “10 Things Every Husband Secretly Hates About His Wife”

  1. J. Bell says:

    This article is crap. Sounds like a very dysfunctional relationship going on….

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