Top 6 Secrets a Narcissist Wants You Never Find Out

There is a huge difference between people who love themselves for the way they are and are not shy to flaunt their confidence and people who think only about themselves and no one else. These sorts of people have no one in their lives that they perceive as important and so, their connections with people are only gateways to help themselves to achieve their goals, whatever their goals may be.

Here are the 6 secrets that narcissists hope that you will never find out, and you can easily look through their web of manipulations:

1. They will show their true selves when you don’t show suspicion

Usually people don’t enjoy being upfront and involved into heavy confrontation, and so narcissists use the situation and manipulate these kinds of people because they think that they have no voice. Once you try to act like you’re not suspicious around them they will get themselves into their trap thinking that you don’t sense their game. You will start to secretly evaluate their patterns of behavior, their thoughts and goals, just by observing them. Once you do, with the same steps silently leave the relationship.

2. The best way to deal with their behavior is indifference

The best secret to handle a narcissist is to address their efforts to gain your adoration with ignoring and indifference. Being indifferent, almost ghost-like to them will do exactly as a returned unwanted gift that someone gave to you. It will hit them when they find out that you don’t buy their fake persona and you don’t get flattered when they flatter you. Not a single bar of your energy is lost this way.

3. They are masters at pretending

Narcissists are the best when they need to portray an emotion they don’t feel in order to get what they want, and some of them include pity, humility and remorse. The key in finding them out is their game of acting like a saint that can do no wrong. Upstanding your ground if you’re attacked is how to shield yourself from being played in front of your eyes.

4. They want you for validation and control, not for love

These people will never return your love. They are little or not capable of love and feeling love, so they will still try to act like they love you because they need you to love them. Once you do, they will take over their control over you and will manipulate your emotions so they can get away with it. Once you do find out that you’re in such relationship, go away. Go away and never turn back.

5. Realize that you’re not inferior to their victims or new targets

Narcissists don’t see their relationship partners as people, but as objects. They will do their best to convince you to feel inferior to them to make them feel superior over you. If you’re past the stage of confronting them, they will convince their next victim to think low about you, exactly how they described their partner before you. They repeat this cycle for a long time, it’s just waiting for a time to be finally revealed who they are.

6. Their biggest fear is being caught

They are terrified of the thought of being exposed as what they are, especially in front of many people and their human objects who they call friends. Yes, they are frauds, and you have to document their actions, to verbally hold them and never let them try to overspeak you or let them the talk lead, never delete messages, mails, or any valid documentation that you can use so they’ll have no option to deny after so many proofs. Don’t be afraid, the narcissists are those that should be afraid of. They hold you in check that way, once you prove them that they have no power over you, they have nowhere to run.