7 Things Your Man Secretly Hopes You Tell Him
We all know that a relationship comes with a lot of expectations from both parties involved. A woman has certain expectations from the man and in case the man does not fulfil these expectations, a woman is free to walk away but we have a particular trend in popular that cannot be missed- we barely talk about what men expect from relationships. Following is a list of things that your man wants to hear you say!
1. “How are you?”
Well, we all know that men are not the most expressive lot, which is why they need a bit of a coaxing sometimes, so ask them how they are and make them feel as special as you can. Get him talking and he will open up and show you his sensitive type. He will share everything that he has going in his mind once he feels like you actually care.
2. “I feel safe with you”
This takes us back to the basics. You must remember that a guy in almost programmed in some ways to always take care of you and protect you. When you say that you feel safe with him, he is reassured that he is being a good partner and is making you feel safe and secure. When you say these things, he falls in love with you a little more, too. Tell him what he needs to hear. It strengthens the relationship in ways you cannot imagine.
3. “I believe in you”
Faith and belief is the most fundamental thing a man looks for in a relationship, and you would be surprised at how often your man feels unmotivated and lost. It is your job to make him feel like he can get where we wants to and give him an occasional confidence like every other person.
4. “Let’s go out”
We all know that it is generally the guy who asks the girl out and makes plans, but you do not how attractive it is to a man when his woman makes plans and takes him out. Once you do this, he will actually understand how much you love spending time with him and being with him.
5. “You’re the one I want”
There is no better way to treat your man other than reminding him that he is the only one you want as often as you can. He might not tell you, but he gets insecure sometimes and that is one nasty feeling. Make him feel needed, wanted and loved. Reaffirm that you are truly committed to him by saying it and making small gestures as much as you can.
6. “I’m grateful for you”
Remind him how that he is a wonderful he is and how much you value his existence. Tell him that you are thankful for his existence.
7. “I love you more than anyone”
There is not enough times that you can tell him you love him. Tell him when you wake up, tell him when you fall asleep. There ain’t anything as beautiful as love!