7 Ways to Stop Haters From Ruining Your Life

You might not really like Taylor Swift but you can’t deny that there is a particular song that you started singing the moment you read the word hater. It’s ok. We did too. It’s a fact that no matter how hard you try, you can never be liked by everyone. Some people will find a problem in everything you do and honestly, there isn’t a lot that you can do about it.

I read it somewhere that it’s ok to have haters. It just means you stood up for something in life and that’s worth it all. Jealously finds its roots in the deep-lying personal reasons and underlying insecurity issues. That is something you can’t control. However, you can always control how much impact a hater can have on your mind. To know how to prevent a hater from killing your vibe, continue reading!

1. Mute, Block, Delete.

The best way to avoid drama is to cut off its ties with you. Moreover, you don’t have any good reason to keep someone on your list or life who isn’t adding anything positive and worthwhile in your life. Life anyway too complicated and exhausting, you don’t need external unnecessary agents to add to it. Hence, block them from your list so that they don’t get to see what you’re up to.

2. Face the person.

If you think that someone has been throwing dirt on you indirectly or behind your back, then it’s always fine to call them out for it. Some people just keep talking ill because they want to. In such situations, face the person and ask them what the matter is.

3. Don’t blame yourself.

Sometimes your mind gets blurry. Especially if we are going through a tough phase, haters just add on to the existing chaos. Make sure you remind yourself that it’s their problem and not yours. Don’t blame yourself for the way someone has chosen to look at you even when you have caused no harm to them. Mostly, it’s just their deep-rooted insecurity that drives them to hate on you.

4. Positive approach.

What a hater does is their thing. How you respond to their hate speaks volumes about who you are as a person. If you start spreading negativity just to answer back then there is barely any difference between you two.

5. Ignorance is bliss.

Life is more than worrying about which lifeless person has what remark to pass on you. You could be the most perfect person in the world and someone somewhere will still find a fault in you. As a human, you aren’t designed to be able to please everyone. You’re not French fries. So just ignore.

6. You do you.

Don’t allow the haters to get the better of you. The only one who needs to validate is you yourself. Be your own mentor. Make mistakes and correct them yourself. Sooner or later, either they will stop or you will forget that they exist.

7. Stay close to those who uplift.

They say, if you have a good friend, you can get through anything in life. Stay close to people who help you become the best version of yourself and contribute with constructive criticism to your life.