Understanding These 5 Love Languages Can Be a Key For a Perfect Relationship

We all know that relationships start with an ‘I love you’, mostly. But most of us do not know what comes after. We are clueless about the scene after the honeymoon phase is over. That’s when the real issues come straight face to you and most couples aren’t able to cross the high tide of the relationship. Today we bring to you five love languages which if understood can lead to a perfect relationship. To know what they are, continue reading!

1: Service acts

Actions speak louder than words. Things that you do involuntarily for your partner will matter way more than any expensive gift that you get for them on their birthday. Offering a helping hand for domestic work when you have a day off, taking care of the babies if they have an important meeting or event to attend. The little things? They aren’t so little after all. Actions are the primary language of love. Words are just mere words if they don’t have actions to back them up.

2: Physical touch

Physical tough is more than just wet and sweaty sex, even though they are an important part of a relationship. Holding hands and running your fingers down their hair when they lay their head on your lap is also a form of physical touch that makes a world of a difference. Everyone doesn’t necessarily need to turn your partner on. Nothing can replace the warmth of hugs. They are fulfilling and have the ability to calm the storms occurring on the inside.

3: Spending quality time

It’s understandable that as adults our life gets really busy with a lot of things and we are unable to spend a lot of time with the ones we love. And that’s okay. It’s fine if you can’t spend 4 hours a day with them. Just make sure that you give them sufficient time so that they don’t keep wondering if they at all exist in your life. And when you do give them time, spend it doing something both you really enjoy. Keep the phones away, don’t attend calls and messages from friends and work until and unless they are absolutely necessary. It should just be you two, even if it’s just talking and playing around. It doesn’t always have to be fancy dates all the time.

4: Affirmation

The human mind is as dangerous as it is beautiful. It can make a hell out of heaven and heaven out of hell. Sometimes our mind forces us to think of things that aren’t even there. This is one of the main reasons why relationships break. Rather than getting angry on your partner, comfort them with affirmative words. Nobody likes to go to bed thinking if they mean anything at all to you.

5: Gifts

‘I saw this on my way back home. I thought you’d really like it’ is probably one of the most underrated ways of saying I love you. Small tokens of appreciation mean a lot more than expensive cars. It’s the thought that talk. The effort you put into getting the gifts that is why they are a huge deal.