11 Things You Got to Do to Turn Your Luck Around With Your Love Life
Do you remember the last time you went on a date? Have you started counting yourself in the “forever alone” gang? If yes, then you need to go in for a good introspection. Finding flaws is the first step towards treating them. Your outlook about life in general and love in particular, is a culmination of your day to day thoughts.
1. Be Open To Experiences
Are you one of those people who browse through the entire menu, only to order the regulars? Do you vouch you won’t buy a particular color but end up doing the same? Well, you can’t read the same book expecting a different end so please step out of your comfort zone for love.
2. Healthy Body
You are what you eat. It is high time to avoid junk, not because of societal pressure to go vegan or anything, but to be healthier. It will drastically change your mood and mind, give you new energy to face life.
3. Apps Are An Option
You may think it is impossible, but it’s worth a try. Don’t trust anyone on the internet blindly but if you are someone who doesn’t meet new people often, this is your best bet. Be careful and have fun. Talking to strangers may even be comforting at times because their judgment won’t weigh you down.
4. Learn To Say No
Please don’t be a pushover. You can’t always give in to other people’s demand, sacrificing your needs in the name of love. If you don’t speak up for yourself, no one will.
5. Be More Approachable
You don’t need to be too distant with your “resting bitch face” mood on when you like someone, neither do you have to look down and act coy. Be more open, spontaneous and approachable. Talk about what you love, about your dreams and needs. Be open and people will notice you. Don’t sit at a corner and expect your prince charming to walk up to you.
6. Be Productive
Do things you love. Make art, cook food, read a book. So not wallow in self pity, attracting negative energy and wasting your life. Broaden the horizon of your mind and evolve. Love yourself and it will reflect in your work too.
7. Know Your Needs
Just don’t settle. It can be annoying at times with social media being cupid’s nest but you gotta know what exactly you are looking for. Some surprises are okay but you can’t date someone who wouldn’t even understand a thing you say. Compatibility is a must.
8. Love Yourself First
Keep hustling hard and pamper yourself as a reward. Nothing is more attractive than self-confidence.
9. It Is Okay To Flirt
Einstein said “insanity is doing the same thing over and over again while expecting different results every time”. Change your flirting technique if one fails; jazz things up.
10. Don’t Compare
Do not compare your love interest to Mr.Darcy or a Victoria’s Secret model. Don’t compare your love story to Romeo and Juliet, you don’t want to die, do you? You are unique and so is your love.
11. Believe In Yourself
“Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one alive who is Youer than You.”
― Dr. Seuss
You deserve to be loved for who you are and one day it will be worth the wait. Don’t lose hope!