10 Warning Signs That You Are Dealing With a Black-Hearted Person

We absorb negative energies right when we step out of our home doors. The world outside is clearly something that we weren’t taught as much as in the childhood, and while we expect to live through the manner patters we have created for ourselves, something always picks on us and drives us nuts. Mostly because we cannot surpass some levels of hate, negativity and evil that some people have in their hearts and spread it around like pollution.

Just turn on the TV, you’re surrounded with evil, psychopaths that kill monstrously, rape, average murder, criminals and as we are surrounded by negativity we learn how to accept it and it becomes regular everyday life for us, which is shocking. As much as we are polluted with negativity and stress, for the sake of our health we clearly avoid signs of negative people that are surrounding us by ignoring them, but ignoring something and pretending like it’s not there can actually lead us into trouble that we don’t want to be.

These are 10 signs of poisonous people that we should not ignore them by any means, and once we notice them, we should find actions to protect ourselves:

1. They Are Master Manipulators

These people always have an agenda to keep them focused and move them forward into their wanted direction. They are ready to screw you over, manipulate you, and treat you like a toy if needed. Nothing and no one matters for them and their entire life is build upon tricks, manipulations and lies.

2. They Are Untrustworthy

This one goes without even saying it. People that live their lives built up on lies and games are not trustworthy, no matter how pure they appear to you. If you caught yourself to trust such a person, keep a safe distance and remove the person from your life day by day.

3. They Deny Reality

They live in their own lives that they created for themselves and the image they want to be, so when someone tries to put them to the ground they refuse to believe and accept it, so they will start a rant on their own and once the other person feels like it’s too much backs away. They believe their own twisted game and their own lies, and when lies become their reality they are far from aware that the truth is something else.

4. They Believe They Are “Owed”

People who have dark heart often think that they deserve a nice working position, high paycheck, and everything they shouldn’t even work to earn it all by themselves. They want someone else to do their job because they think low of hard working people and instead they integrate them to work for their needs.

5. They Demand Your Attention

These people are most of the time overly-confident and self-assured to the point of no believe. They overvalue their importance, thinking that they have earned the right to be superior over everybody. They demand to be the center of attention and they think that they’re worthy of it.

6. They Lie A Lot

They will lead you into their web of lies and will continue to lie themselves and the people around them until they can. Once their old lies are forgotten, they put on top new lies and it goes in circle. They have an image for themselves that they want to live, so lying into that image and making people believe is what they live for.

7. They Live A Double Life

These people are different when they are with you, and different when they are with other coworker. They are also different when they are surrounded with people they like to manipulate, even masses of people if they tend to be popular on social media or the workplace, but they are who they truly are when they are with themselves. They think everything’s a game and they play it really well. Until you find out, than the masks are dropped.

8. They Don’t Respect Your Time

Worrying solely about themselves, they don’t respect you or your time. You mean nothing to them, so also your time and needs mean nothing to them. They will try to use you as much as possible, not caring whether you have time for them or not. They think you should spend your entire time on them, because they believe that whatever you choose to do is worthless except themselves.

9. They Feel No Guilt

An honest, caring person would feel guilty if they knew that their actions may hurt or deceive someone that they love and care about, but these people don’t care at all if they hurt someone. They don’t feel love, they don’t show respect, and therefore, their ego is so strong they feel no guilt.

10. They Hide Information

In their efforts to manipulate people they hide information about them or about anything that may be threat to them in order to fulfill what they need. This information may reveal their true nature or their plans, so hiding them and acting like they don’t exist is mostly what they do in order to hide themselves and continue with their lies and manipulation.

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26 comments on “10 Warning Signs That You Are Dealing With a Black-Hearted Person”

  1. Audrey says:

    So true, I didn’t know how to recognize people like this until it was totally ministered to me
    very dangerous people with deceitful hidden agenedas

    1. K David says:

      Very much so … I deal with one personally (my daughter) and she fits all 10 of these especially 1,4,6,8,9,10, its so sad.

      1. Ckf says:

        My daughter is like that also. She is very cold and evil hearted and to add to it she drinks and tries to turn her kids against me contantly.

        1. Brenda Fowler says:

          this makes me know i am not alone about daughters

        2. kathy says:

          My daughter and her daughter have kept my great grandchildren away because I asked daughter to start paying some money back. I also informed them the emotional and verbal abuse had to stop.

    2. Dawn Richards says:

      Yes just like me with my ex when I read this I said to myself that fits my ex to a tee

    3. Judy Brown- Stiles says:

      I know first hand this is absolutely true but worse when they tell others they learned the evil from you.This happens when they get caught in their craftiness having no ability to take blame for their own evil acts and no other way out.I just wish my doctor fully understood,however were this person to get to your doctor she would not be able to see the psycopath,psychotic,bipolar beneath the so called christian loving being which is a wolf in sheeps clothing and terrifying to see good people buy into it.

  2. Priyadarsinee palai says:

    This is really true ,I have faced

  3. Priyadarsinee palai says:

    Thanks for this article

  4. Danella says:

    This describes hubby ,I have talked to God about him ,God said I got this and I am going to be all in his business.God is going to take care of these people.Every knee must bow

  5. Col says:

    People like this are dangerous and can ruin your life before you know it! They lie, believe their own lies and are so good at manipulating people, can make them believe anything! I know, dealt with people like this! All I can say is run and run fast! Leave these people who only care about themselves and creating the a world around them! I’m sure you’ve heard DO OR DIE! Exactly what will happen if you get caught up in their dark Web of lies!

  6. Babs says:

    Are you sure that it can’t be under Munchausen Disorder? My niece is a lot like the majority of all the above. Was told she had Munchausen By Proxy. But all of the above describes her perfectly. Wow.

  7. ABISOYE Daniels says:

    It’s really true, nothing is exempted from my Boss.

  8. susan says:

    what you said is so true -I married a guy like this – I mistook his arrogance for confidence – I fell under his spell when I realised he was a control freak and told him I was leaving him he bashed me gave me a brain injury this is after being married for 40 years – at least now I am rid of him it took that to happen to free myself.

  9. Christena says:

    Why are people this way ???what is their goal of purpose they must or you it’s said they have an agenda… if they are doing this intentionally what on earth for and why?

    1. Irene says:

      God has a wonderful reason for everything happening.

  10. Nanah says:

    Dats exactly my mother!

  11. Valerie Backshall says:

    My daughter and partner are both like this am moving to get away ,as soon as house sells.

  12. Sarah says:

    The world is filled with black-hearted-people. Where do they come from have society created them or is it DNA? Please it is very dangerous to associate with these creatures just run as far away from them. They will first befriend you thereafter wiggle themselves into your homes. Do not invite them to your homes big mistake! They are like pest it is difficult to get rid of them. Allow them into your personal space and they will pull you and your whole family into their dirty webs. They will always plot and plan against your happiness. If their deeds and behaviour are found out they will: 1. make you the lying one. 2. twist your words 3. cry(do not feel sorry for them) 4. trow a tantrum 5. scare you or physically abuse 6. Gossip about you. 7.Destroy your stuff. Black-hearted-people could be younger than 10 years old and could be any person. I call them the “masked people” or Jessabels.

  13. Cimdy says:

    My daughter is like that also. She is very cold and evil hearted and to add to it she drinks and tries to turn her kids against me contantly.

  14. Matt says:

    This article could have been written about my wife…it’s scary…and so is she. At times, she’s even violent.

  15. Ian Sutton says:

    Could it be that all you you people complaining here
    Are just weak? I’ve known people like this everyone has of course. I’ve never had a problem with telling them to go to hell and leave me alone. Stand your ground and be done with it. Instead of complaining about them which makes you jus as bad but on the opposite side of the spectrum. Just bumming everyone out sucking the joy out of life for everyone involved. Grow up

  16. Eesha says:

    I m also dealing with such kind of person as he is my husband. I m very depressed as he was not like this but now he always do something which hurts me. And he never feels regret

  17. A Sully says:

    This is definitely my ex wife .

  18. Ashok says:

    So true. I can identify most of the above about my next door neighbor!

  19. Barbara says:

    We have to protect ourselves and our loved ones that can’t see them for what they are. They are vampires that suck our souls if we let them, they pull us into darkness and despair with their hate. Condemn them in the name of Jesus and see yourself in His light and love.

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