6 Signs You Shouldn’t Be With Someone Even If You Love Them, Because Sometimes It’s Just Not Going Anywhere

Considering how hard it is to find love itself, you might be dismissive of what I’m about to tell you. But hear me out first. Sometimes, you NEED to let go of people even when you love them too much. Because as much as we’d like to believe that love makes everything alright, it is not true. Love is not the one stop solution to everything. And sometimes, you just need to put your life, on a higher priority than your love. Here are a few instances where it is ok to let go of someone you love, even if you love them-

1. Your plans for the future don’t add up together

Sometimes, it is not easy to compromise on some things, no matter how much you love them. For instance, if you plan to be a stay at home parent, you’ve always cherished the thought of raising your kids, and you partner doesn’t want kids at all. It would be wrong to force the wishes of either of the partners on the other with regards to something this important. So, better part amicably unless it turns out to be the reason everything gets sour between you two.

2. The sex just isn’t right

You might feel like a horrible person to break up with someone on this, but you are actually saving yourself and them from a life of misery. It is important that both the partners are sexually compatible, anything less than that would just come back to bite you in the ass, and not in a good way.

3. One person is always being the martyr

It is normal to love someone so much that you genuinely don’t mind being the one who always has to do the dirty work. But relationships like this will not survive the test of time. Again, any relationship which is not a partnership where each person pulls his or her own weight is bound to turn in on itself in the long run.

4. You become too dependent on them

It gets to the point where you find it hard for you to be yourself and function as you normally would with them not around. This sort of neediness is a form of obsession and is not healthy for anyone. If you find that you cannot overcome it, you need to cut things off for your own good.

5. You find it hard to compromise

Relationships are straight up built on compromises because no matter how much two people love each other- they can’t always agree with their better half. Even then if you find that one or both of you cannot compromise on occasions, then you need to let them go.

6. You feel like being stuck in a rut

Relationships are about mutual growth. Both the partners should be cheering the other and supporting them in the urge to become better. Comfort is one thing and being stagnant is another. Though it might seem hard to draw a line between the two, you need to understand that it might cause you a lot of hurt if you don’t pay attention to it.